tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13657005.post1997139787933884758..comments2007-08-12T22:51:00.937-07:00ibloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05826933724680891877noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13657005.post-29597954081550136572007-08-12T22:51:00.000-07:002007-08-12T22:51:00.000-07:00no matter what the definition, the part no one shares is that both involve the world of inlaws and that's what makes or breaks either an arranged or luv marriage. No matter what luv and appreciation like rajaprabhu said...my experience proves to be very differnt:)Ramshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13685050932567621593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13657005.post-16678589035911603242007-08-11T08:26:00.000-07:002007-08-11T08:26:00.000-07:00HBO aired you-have-got-mail today.. what a co-incidence :-DAnshuman Ghoshhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05164122856295553819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13657005.post-54008668363241054352007-08-10T23:23:00.000-07:002007-08-10T23:23:00.000-07:00you shd see the fun happening at Shriram's blog, especially the comment box ;-)Anshuman Ghoshhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05164122856295553819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13657005.post-79864851559418738812007-08-08T15:15:00.000-07:002007-08-08T15:15:00.000-07:00I have done what I promised-<BR/>http://mymercurialmoods.blogspot.com/2007_08_01_archive.html.<BR/>Please read and comment:)shriramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08954628450462218591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13657005.post-79627642468471622182007-08-08T10:41:00.000-07:002007-08-08T10:41:00.000-07:00Most thought provoking...and I wont litter this page with my views..but dont you worry,specially for you I am formulating a new perspective of an arranged marriage,that I will unload upon you today:Dshriramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08954628450462218591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13657005.post-79284304634486432422007-08-07T01:55:00.000-07:002007-08-07T01:55:00.000-07:00this is one of my fav topics, and I can put up my essays right here, right now :-D But, those logistics are not for public consumption and shall remain restricted to a few select friends (whom I enlighten once in a while with peppered philosophy ;-D ) <BR/><BR/>I would say - <BR/><B> Arranged marriage </B> is like tossing a coin. You have half chance to end up happy (yes YES YeS yEs thats the aim, the ultimate goal - marry and be happy) and half a chance to end up unhappy. <BR/><BR/>I would prefer to marry a friend of mine, than marry a total stranger after looking at her matrimonial profile! Atleast I know my friend a bit, and the chances of me being happy with her later on, is something more than just 50%. <BR/><BR/>This funda sounds familiar, eh ? ;-)Anshuman Ghoshhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05164122856295553819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13657005.post-69681142872883180712007-08-07T01:46:00.000-07:002007-08-07T01:46:00.000-07:00The point is not about love marriage or arranged marriage. <BR/><BR/>It is about whether you and your partner can experience that selfless love and appreciation for each other. <BR/><BR/>It is about the innerself that says lets face 1000 problems, 1000 hardships and few nice moments together and experience it together. The strong bond that grows out of it, is the only thing that matters.<BR/><BR/>Who cares if a cake is made in aluminium bowl or silver bowl. What matters is the cake. <BR/><BR/>What is ironic is, no one looking into the process of cake making. Instead trying to value it from the bowl. <BR/><BR/><BR/>A philosopher needs a different fables based on culture, geography, history to convey a higher truth.<BR/><BR/>It would really hurt him when people start dissecting the fable and start arguing while the underlying philosophy goes for a six.Rajaprabhuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04442270984270656148noreply@blogger.com